Domestic Violence and Effects

Women and children usually find themselves within domestic violent situations because the women are too afraid to leave their abusive boyfriends and husbands. It’s reported that women in domestic violence situations often miscarry, have stillbirths, and give birth to low weight babies. They also experience a high rate of infant deaths. Children of domestic violence tend to be malnourished and are less likely to receive their regular immunization shots. Domestic violence won’t end until men and women find the courage to end it.Women are the nurturers in the family but domestic violence can impair this natural ability. Mothers can become too depressed to take care of their children. They’re preoccupied with the violence and survival of it that their natural instincts become numb. They can become easily irritable and even lash out their children. They feel hopeless and don’t know how to get out of their situation. Abusers usually threaten their victims which is why they stay. It’s a vicious cycle that won’t be broken until victims find the courage to leave.Domestic Violence and Its EffectsAnxiety
Death
Erratic behavior
Addiction
Malnutrition
Poverty
Repeated domestic violence
Self-injury
Sleep disorders
Suicidal attempts and thoughts
Panic attacks
Emotional numbing
Depression
Fearful of people
Self neglect
Strained family relationships
Child abuse and neglect
Hypertension
Heart problems
Eating disorders
Difficulty holding a job
Difficulty cultivating relationships
Chronic people pleaser
Withdrawal
Fear of abandonmentBelieve it or not, some women stay in domestic violent situations because they’re afraid of being excommunicated by the church; they frown upon divorce. Let the church excommunicate you! First of all, this is the pot calling the kettle black. The church has its own problems and shouldn’t worry whether or not you leave your abusive husband. Don’t allow a doctrine that’s based in fear stop you from getting out of an unhealthy situation. Get out today!If you value your health, you’ll leave your domestic violence far behind you. When you’re constantly battered, you can develop arthritis, hypertension, and other health problems. If you don’t have medical insurance, these illnesses could be costly. Save yourself and money and leave your abuser. Your mental, emotional, and physical health is more important than staying with your abuser. Don’t worry about your children because most of them would rather be from a broken home than be in one.Don’t allow the effects of domestic violence to break your spirit. Breaking free is the best thing you can do. It may not be easy at first but you and your children (if you have any) will be better off in the long run. Remember, you can only change yourself. Forget about staying with your abuser because you think you can change them — you can’t do that. Learn from domestic violence and move forward with your life. Tell your story and help others get out of abusive situations. With the help of counseling, you can overcome the effects of domestic violence. If you want a second chance at living, have the courage to get out of domestic violence and get out for good.